alarmfire penis repulsion unlearn your transmisogyny

Anonymous asked:

I'm frustrated with myself, because personally, I'm a
lesbian who's repulsed by dicks? and while | totally
see trans women as women, | wouldn't really feel
comfortable having sex with a penis? | don't want to
be labeled as a terf, but sex in a relationship matters
to me, and so | would find it really hard to be in a
relationship with a trans woman who still has a
penis? idk, I'd love to hear some imput/advice
alarmfire answered:

it kind of seems like you don’t actually want to
educate yourself/unlearn your transmisogyny and
instead what you're worried about is being called
transphobic or transmisogynistic, but if you do want
to learn i can recommend a blog where you can do it,
because from this message alone it looks like you
have a lot of (cissexist) assumptions about trans
women's bodies so... here are two posts you could
start with if you actually want to educate yourself (1)
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