no to transwomen is misogyny not an acceptable boundary

“but i don’t wanna have sex with
someone with a penis”

if you end up never sleeping with anyone
w a penis, that's okay. being a lesbian
isn’t just about who you have sex with.
it's also about who you love, who you're
attracted to and who you date. and one
day you might find yourself falling in love
with a trans girl.

if that happens, just like in any
relationship, you can negotiate your
limits in sex. there's no point in saying “i
am not attracted to trans women” -
because it makes it seem like trans
women are inherently so much different
from cis women, makes you sound like
you think all trans women look/are the
same and like you think of women as
walking genitals. which is pretty
misogynist!