plaidos unlearning

How does a lesbian not being attracted you
you = transphobe? | can see if she isn’t
attracted to u bc ur TRANS, that’s transphobic.
But if she doesn’t want to date u period how is
that transphobic?
@ Anonymous
plaidos:
its not; if somebody doesn't want to date/fuck mefisn't attracted to me,
then like whatever; that's not inherently transphobic, and there are
plenty of non-transphobic reasons to not date me (such as, its too long
distance, or, 'm just not into you, or, /'m allergic to the only perfume you
have because you're basic).
ts important to mention that even if somebody doesn't want to date me
because 'm trans/because they re transphobic, i stil am not entitied to
themisex with theminteractions with them. if somebody doesnt want to
date me because im trans, theyre bigoted, and gross, and should deal
with that (because bigotry is Bad), but 'm not entitied o them. that's not
what them “unlearming’ their bigotry is about. ifs not about us being
entitid to them, its about them unlearning their goddamn bigotry.
“if someone (read: lesbians) doesn't want to date me because I'm trans (read:
male) they're bigoted, and gross, and should deal with that.”
this is how young lesbians are shamed and coerced into dating trans women
and puting themselves into traumatizing positions.