shame

Ill keep this simple for folks. Trans people are not worried about cis people
who don't want to sleep them. Preferences are prejudice; no matter how
hurt your feelings are or how justified you feel, because at the end of the
day you're judging your reactions to an entire group of people you haven't
met yet (unless you've, for example, met every trans woman on the planet).
No one's asking you to want to have sex with everyone; but declaring
“preferences” publicly does nothing but reinforce negative cultural norms
which put white, able-bodied, fit, cis people at the top and everyone else
below, and those farthest from those norms at the very bottom. Keep your
“preferences’ to yourself.