transactivists letting us know when no is okay

them. I'm saying that you shouldn't not
be interested in someone solely because
of what's in their pants. If you didn't
know what was in their pants, would you
date them? That s the question that
‘separates the transphobes from the rest
of the lesbian community.

“This is a woman. She has a penis, but |
like her personality and find the rest of
her to beautiful. | shall date them.”

vs

“This is a woman. | like her personality
and find the rest of her to be beautiful,
but she has a penis. | shall not date
them"

That. That is the difference.