TS Chloe, Anna

[-] TS_Chloe = Transsexual 22 MtF 9 points 1 day ago
Tell him that he should treat people how they want to be treated and give a fair chance to all girls. You can't force
someone to date trans people, but for someone to out right say “I would never date a trans person” is just really
transphobic and close minded to other peoples feelings. Its a personal hit piece. If the topic comes up again he should
say something along of the lines of that if he really connected and loved a trans girl, he would be with her and have
him apologize for being rude.
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(1 port-giel [5] 4 points 1 cay ag0
He wasn't being rude though, and he wasnt hurting anyone's feelings because was a hypothetical conversation with
his best friend. He's still a child. His lense is not clear enough to have the kind of insight as to what he might do as he
matures. I am asking what can he say today, given that (as I mentioned), he feels that it's too much to unpack at this
point of his life; not what he might say in the future.
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[-] Pluto_Charon a 20 | Transmasc | T: 4/13/18 18 points 1 day ago*™
Would you be equally okay with him saying he would never date a black girl because the few black girls he knows are
jerks/have too much going on?
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[-] Anna__v IZ Transgender 7 points 1 day ago
He wasn't being rude though, and he wasnt hurting anyone's feelings because was a hypothetical conversation with
his best friend.
Imagine another word to replace "trans", is it okay then?
* But then she asked him if he would ever date a Asian/Black/White/Native American person and he said no "
You see the problem here? none of those are considered good and valid arguments, but racist ones. He may not be a
transphobe, but that remark in itself certainly is.
And the girl was right calling him out on that.
I hope the girl and/or you can talk to him and explain why that is wrong.
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